Many people aren’t aware of what their ultimate relationship would look like or even that they are able to create it. This is just a compilation of thoughts, ideas and beliefs around how an Ultimate Relationship would look and function…
What is An “Ultimate Relationship”?
Posted By Rach on January 19th, 2010
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An ultimate relationship is one where both partners not only love each other but are in love with each other. They are each other’s best friend, confidant as well as lover. Their relationship is full of passion, happiness, fun and growth both as an individual and as a couple.
Misunderstandings happen but are quickly resolved, communication is open and happens frequently. Trust and honesty are abundant and feeling secure within the relationship means knowing that your partner is there for you no matter what, that they are dependable, reliable and can be taken out to social events.
The ultimate relationship is harmonious, balanced and grounded. You work together as a team and you walk side by side into the world being both a rock for each other when you need to be, and soaring high wherever life takes you together.
Neither is more important than the other but both is number one in each others lives. At times collaboration and accommodation is needed in order for both individuals to be able to reach their personal goals but both willingly find a way to make it work.
It has a good balance of quality couple time and individual quality time, allowing for each person to get to know and explore who they are, and to bring that into the relationship.
The ultimate relationship is a two-way street, both giving and gratefully receiving in all forms; energy, time, love, affection, attention, information, communication and honesty.
The ultimate relationship is full of acceptance and understanding. People can be themselves and are both supported and encouraged to be who they are on all levels which includes sexuality and spirituality, not just personality.
As people change and evolve they are accepted and supported, as they grow and take different directions, they are accepted and supported. As they evolve sexually and spiritually they are accepted and supported.
People in an ultimate relationship feel a deep connection and bond with each other. They are aware that relationships are a living entity that is either growing and evolving or dying so they continue to build on it, feed and nurture it, as well as each other.
The ultimate relationship has both complimentary and challenging aspects. Strengths where one has weaknesses help to balance out the relationship team but also help the other person to build strengths where perhaps they wouldn’t have before. Being with someone who has different strengths that also supports and encourages you can be a fantastic combination. Getting outside ones comfort zone is the challenging aspect and when someone loves you they want you to grow and evolve to be the best you can be.
Does this describe your relationship? If so, that’s fantastic because only a small percentage of couples ever create a relationship like this. Many don’t know what the ultimate relationship looks like and hence don’t realise that it’s something they can create or have.
If you are reading this and have found that it highlights areas of your own relationship that could perhaps be improved, then please check out “Creating Your Ultimate Relationship: The Foundations”. It’s a free report with questions for you to answer that will help you pinpoint what you need to work on so that you can also create your ultimate relationship either now, or in the future when you meet that special someone.
Here’s to your relationship success!
Rach Wilson
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